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(两)(口)(子)(过)(得)(怎)(么)(样)(,看)(看)(厨)(房)(、饭)(桌)(,也)(猜)(个)(八)(九)(不)(离)(十)(。
所)(以)(说)(,好)(好)(吃)(饭)(是)(小)(事)(,也)(是)(大)(教)(养)(。
孩)(子)(被)(人)(骂)(作)(没)(教)(养)(,多)(半)(是)(在)(饭)(桌)(上)(。
我)(有)(两)(个)(本)(家)(的)(婶)(儿)(,在)(亲)(戚)(朋)(友)(中)(的)(名)(声)(特)(别)(差)(,逢)(年)(过)(节)(聚)(餐)(的)(时)(候)(,大)(家)(都)(不)(想)(邀)(请)(她)(俩)(,但)(有)(时)(候)(碍)(于)(亲)(戚)(面)(子)(,又)(不)(得)(不)(客)(气)(一)(下)(。
每)(当)(开)(始)(上)(菜)(的)(时)(候)(,她)(两)(家)(的)(孩)(子)(就)(“霸)(占)(”了)(转)(桌)(:凉)(拌)(小)(青)(菜)(不)(喜)(欢)(吃)(,就)(赶)(紧)(转)(过)(去)(;这)(碟)(五)(香)(牛)(肉)(片)(挺)(好)(,就)(转)(到)(自)(己)(跟)(前)(按)(住)(,一)(筷)(子)(接)(一)(筷)(子)(地)(吃)(光)(;喜)(欢)(吃)(蒜)(薹)(炒)(牛)(肚)(儿)(里)(的)(牛)(肚)(儿)(,就)(趴)(在)(桌)(子)(边)(上)(,欠)(着)(身)(、伸)(着)(胳)(膊)(,用)(筷)(子)(巴)(拉)(着)(找)(牛)(肚)(儿)(,把)(菜)(都)(扒)(拉)(出)(来)(了)(……
一)(桌)(人)(举)(着)(筷)(子)(,插)(不)(上)(机)(会)(,尴)(尬)(地)(不)(行)(。这)(俩)(婶)(儿)(却)(还)(挺)(乐)(呵)(:“这)(俩)(孩)(子)(,真)(是)(胃)(口)(好)(!每)(次)(带)(出)(来)(吃)(饭)(,光)(挑)(肉)(吃)(,非)(得)(吃)(饱)(了)(不)(可)(。”
很)(多)(时)(候)(后)(,我)(们)(关)(注)(了)(孩)(子)(“舌)(尖)(上)(的)(营)(养)(”,却)(忽)(略)(了)(“舌)(尖)(上)(的)(教)(养)(”。
面)(对)(一)(个)(吃)(相)(不)(佳)(的)(孩)(子)(,别)(人)(一)(眼)(就)(能)(看)(出)(这)(孩)(子)(教)(养)(上)(的)(破)(绽)(。如)(果)(父)(母)(连)(餐)(桌)(礼)(仪)(这)(点)(小)(事)(都)(教)(不)(好)(,还)(要)(去)(谈)(什)(么)(出)(息)(、修)(为)(,不)(觉)(得)(很)(搞)(笑)(吗)(。
我)(们)(在)(饭)(桌)(上)(,培)(养)(着)(小)(白)(眼)(狼)(。
自)(己)(家)(吃)(饭)(的)(时)(候)(,第)(一)(筷)(子)(菜)(夹)(给)(谁)(?这)(个)(问)(题)(很)(重)(要)(吗)(,对)(孩)(子)(的)(成)(长)(有)(没)(有)(影)(响)(呢)(?答)(案)(肯)(定)(是)(有)(影)(响)(。
我)(女)(儿)(小)(优)(特)(别)(爱)(吃)(鱼)(肚)(子)(肉)(,嫩)(嫩)(的)(还)(没)(刺)(。以)(前)(每)(次)(吃)(鱼)(,我)(总)(是)(先)(夹)(下)(鱼)(肚)(子)(肉)(,放)(到)(女)(儿)(碗)(里)(。
可)(是)(前)(几)(天)(,姥)(姥)(说)(牙)(口)(不)(好)(了)(,我)(就)(随)(手)(把)(一)(块)(鱼)(肚)(子)(肉)(夹)(到)(姥)(姥)(碗)(里)(了)(。没)(想)(到)(女)(儿)(不)(干)(了)(,一)(脸)(不)(情)(愿)(:“哎)(呀)(,我)(也)(想)(吃)(那)(块)(!”
女)(儿)(当)(时)(那)(语)(气)(,明)(显)(就)(是)(埋)(怨)(我)(把)(本)(该)(属)(于)(她)(的)(肉)(给)(了)(别)(人)(。你)(看)(,我)(为)(她)(夹)(了)(那)(么)(多)(次)(好)(肉)(,就)(这)(一)(次)(没)(随)(她)(的)(意)(,她)(反)(而)(埋)(怨)(起)(我)(来)(了)(。
在)(大)(多)(数)(家)(庭)(里)(,享)(有)(“优)(先)(用)(餐)(权)(”的)(,肯)(定)(是)(孩)(子)(:菜)(还)(没)(上)(齐)(,赶)(紧)(用)(小)(碗)(给)(孩)(子)(拨)(点)(先)(吃)(着)(;盘)(子)(里)(有)(块)(没)(刺)(儿)(的)(鱼)(肉)(,一)(定)(先)(夹)(给)(孩)(子)(,谁)(都)(舍)(不)(得)(吃)(……
这)(是)(我)(们)(最)(常)(用)(的)(爱)(孩)(子)(的)(方)(式)(,期)(盼)(着)(孩)(子)(能)(够)(身)(体)(长)(得)(壮)(壮)(的)(,希)(望)(孩)(子)(能)(体)(会)(到)(我)(们)(的)(爱)(和)(付)(出)(。
可)(实)(际)(上)(,这)(种)(爱)(的)(方)(式)(真)(的)(正)(确)(吗)(?孩)(子)(真)(的)(因)(此)(而)(感)(激)(父)(母)(了)(吗)(?往)(往)(并)(没)(有)(,很)(多)(时)(候)(,孩)(子)(把)(这)(些)(爱)(理)(解)(为)(父)(母)(“理)(所)(应)(当)(”的)(,他)(“受)(之)(无)(愧)(”。一)(旦)(孩)(子)(对)(你)(的)(爱)(“受)(之)(无)(愧)(”,什)(么)(感)(恩)(、孝)(敬)(都)(是)(奢)(谈)(。
吃)(苦)(
现)(在)(不)(让)(孩)(子)(吃)(点)(苦)(,将)(来)(的)(世)(界)(会)(让)(他)(很)(苦)(。
很)(多)(大)(学)(生)(在)(入)(学)(一)(段)(时)(间)(后)(,特)(别)(烦)(恼)(、抑)(郁)(,生)(活)(作)(息)(一)(团)(糟)(,经)(常)(跟)(同)(学)(发)(生)(矛)(盾)(,有)(的)(甚)(至)(辍)(学)(了)(。
他)(们)(进)(入)(大)(学)(后)(才)(发)(现)(,远)(离)(了)(父)(母)(,很)(多)(事)(情)(都)(要)(自)(己)(去)(做)(:洗)(衣)(服)(、刷)(臭)(鞋)(、洗)(被)(罩)(床)(单)(……而)(在)(此)(之)(前)(,这)(些)(事)(情)(都)(是)(父)(母)(代)(劳)(的)(:“儿)(子)(,你)(好)(好)(学)(习)(就)(行)(,别)(的)(事)(你)(不)(用)(管)(!”
在)(冬)(天)(阳)(光)(不)(错)(的)(时)(候)(,你)(去)(某)(些)(大)(学)(宿)(舍)(区)(逛)(逛)(,有)(时)(候)(能)(把)(你)(恶)(心)(吐)(了)(:晒)(出)(来)(的)(被)(子)(、枕)(巾)(,都)(是)(油)(腻)(腻)(、黑)(乎)(乎)(的)(;宿)(舍)(阳)(台)(上)(堆)(满)(了)(臭)(袜)(子)(,晾)(干)(了)(反)(复)(穿)(……
说)(出)(来)(你)(可)(能)(不)(信)(,很)(多)(女)(生)(宿)(舍)(也)(这)(样)(,甚)(至)(比)(男)(生)(宿)(舍)(还)(脏)(。这)(难)(道)(就)(是)(“好)(好)(学)(习)(,别)(的)(事)(情)(不)(用)(管)(”的)(最)(终)(结)(果)(吗)(?
去)(年)(毕)(业)(季)(的)(时)(候)(,有)(记)(者)(采)(访)(一)(群)(毕)(业)(生)(将)(来)(有)(什)(么)(规)(划)(,结)(果)(好)(几)(个)(男)(生)(一)(把)(鼻)(涕)(一)(把)(泪)(地)(哭)(着)(说)(:“我)(不)(想)(工)(作)(,我)(不)(想)(离)(开)(这)(里)(,只)(想)(跟)(朋)(友)(在)(一)(起)(安)(安)(心)(心)(打)(游)(戏)(。”
二)(十)(几)(岁)(的)(人)(,内)(心)(依)(然)(脆)(弱)(,对)(即)(将)(到)(来)(的)(社)(会)(生)(活)(充)(满)(恐)(惧)(和)(抵)(抗)(,没)(有)(这)(个)(年)(龄)(该)(有)(的)(成)(熟)(和)(担)(当)(。这)(难)(道)(就)(是)(“好)(好)(学)(习)(,别)(的)(事)(情)(不)(用)(管)(”的)(最)(终)(结)(果)(吗)(?
很)(多)(时)(候)(,我)(们)(都)(陷)(入)(了)(一)(个)(“爱)(的)(误)(区)(”:太)(爱)(孩)(子)(,什)(么)(都)(舍)(不)(得)(让)(他)(做)(,一)(点)(苦)(都)(舍)(不)(得)(让)(他)(吃)(。然)(而)(最)(终)(,却)(培)(养)(出)(了)(很)(多)(30多)(岁)(还)(在)(啃)(老)(的)(“巨)(婴)(”……
吃)(亏)(
人)(们)(常)(说)(:“吃)(亏)(是)(福)(。”但)(是)(这)(里)(的)(吃)(亏)(和)(懦)(弱)(,完)(全)(是)(两)(回)(事)(。我)(们)(说)(的)(让)(孩)(子)(学)(会)(吃)(亏)(,其)(实)(是)(对)(别)(人)(小)(错)(误)(的)(包)(容)(、接)(纳)(,学)(会)(放)(弃)(眼)(前)(小)(小)(的)(利)(益)(,来)(换)(取)(与)(人)(为)(善)(的)(最)(终)(结)(果)(。并)(不)(是)(一)(味)(纵)(容)(别)(人)(的)(欺)(侮)(。
很)(多)(时)(候)(,小)(事)(不)(忍)(,坏)(大)(事)(;小)(亏)(不)(吃)(,吃)(大)(亏)(。
身)(边)(一)(位)(妈)(妈)(,儿)(子)(上)(四)(年)(级)(。前)(一)(段)(时)(间)(,这)(位)(妈)(妈)(经)(常)(去)(学)(校)(找)(班)(主)(任)(闹)(腾)(,因)(为)(班)(主)(任)(把)(他)(儿)(子)(调)(到)(最)(后)(一)(排)(了)(,理)(由)(是)(这)(个)(男)(孩)(在)(班)(里)(个)(子)(比)(较)(高)(,而)(且)(视)(力)(相)(对)(好)(点)(。
但)(这)(位)(妈)(妈)(简)(直)(无)(法)(接)(受)(:“最)(后)(一)(排)(根)(本)(看)(不)(清)(黑)(板)(,也)(听)(不)(清)(老)(师)(讲)(课)(,肯)(定)(会)(耽)(误)(孩)(子)(学)(习)(。而)(且)(班)(里)(后)(排)(都)(是)(不)(学)(习)(的)(渣)(子)(,跟)(他)(们)(在)(一)(起)(能)(有)(什)(么)(好)(结)(果)(?凭)(什)(么)(让)(我)(家)(孩)(子)(这)(么)(吃)(亏)(呀)(?”
儿)(子)(也)(受)(到)(了)(妈)(妈)(的)(“鼓)(舞)(”,经)(常)(跟)(同)(学)(说)(班)(主)(任)(偏)(心)(,还)(指)(责)(后)(排)(的)(同)(学)(是)(“渣)(子)(”。
最)(终)(,班)(主)(任)(无)(奈)(地)(把)(这)(孩)(子)(往)(前)(调)(了)(调)(。可)(这)(次)(期)(末)(考)(试)(,据)(说)(成)(绩)(考)(得)(很)(差)(。这)(样)(的)(结)(果)(,也)(是)(意)(料)(之)(中)(:争)(得)(了)(一)(个)(靠)(前)(的)(座)(位)(,免)(了)(孩)(子)(一)(次)(“小)(亏)(”,可)(为)(此)(却)(在)(老)(师)(心)(里)(留)(下)(了)(坏)(印)(象)(,也)(影)(响)(了)(孩)(子)(的)(心)(态)(,值)(得)(吗)(?
结)(语)(:
让)(孩)(子)(学)(会)(好)(好)(吃)(饭)(,培)(养)(的)(不)(但)(是)(健)(康)(的)(身)(体)(,还)(有)(内)(在)(的)(教)(养)(;
让)(孩)(子)(适)(当)(吃)(点)(苦)(,承)(担)(属)(于)(自)(己)(的)(那)(部)(分)(辛)(劳)(,培)(养)(的)(不)(但)(是)(独)(立)(自)(主)(,还)(有)(对)(父)(母)(的)(体)(谅)(;
让)(孩)(子)(学)(会)(吃)(亏)(,培)(养)(的)(不)(但)(是)(豁)(达)(的)(心)(胸)(,有)(时)(候)(还)(能)(免)(去)(冲)(动)(带)(来)(的)(恶)(果)(。
让)(孩)(子)(学)(会)(好)(好)(吃)(饭)(,培)(养)(的)(不)(但)(是)(健)(康)(的)(身)(体)(,还)(有)(内)(在)(的)(教)(养)(;
让)(孩)(子)(适)(当)(吃)(点)(苦)(,承)(担)(属)(于)(自)(己)(的)(那)(部)(分)(辛)(劳)(,培)(养)(的)(不)(但)(是)(独)(立)(自)(主)(,还)(有)(对)(父)(母)(的)(体)(谅)(;
让)(孩)(子)(学)(会)(吃)(亏)(,培)(养)(的)(不)(但)(是)(豁)(达)(的)(心)(胸)(,有)(时)(候)(还)(能)(免)(去)(冲)(动)(带)(来)(的)(恶)(果)(。
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